So, small update on the adoption: met with the lawyer on Monday and that went really well. I like her a lot and I am excited about having her help with this situation. Birth mom is still MIA, and communication with the family is non-existent right now. This is a huge leap of faith, because at any moment this whole thing could unravel. But I have a deep sense of peace and calm, which only comes from the Lord and I know in my heart, one way or another we will have a child.
Still, I am concerned about my lack of energy and enthusiasm. Sure, I'm dealing with a terrible cold right now and feel like I've been run over by a truck, but I mean even before that. Since we found out about the adoption I have been a little sad. I think it's because of my inability to get pregnant. I love adoption, and Robert and I were interested in adopting before we even knew we would have fertility issues. Still, it just makes me sad that I can't get pregnant.
I am starting Clomid this cycle, and while I am positive that I'm not pregnant, my period is still hesitating to start, and normally I just guess what the first day is, but I really need to be sure and choose accurately because of the medication. On the other hand, starting a day early may help everything to progress, because research shows that the earlier Clomid is taken in a cycle, the better the effect. So, we'll see.
My house is a mess, which lets me know something is wrong with me internally. I am still going back and forth about returning to school. My life is back to being topsy turvy with no clear direction. It's like I'm holding my breath for the next 3 months to see if I'm going to have a baby nor not. I can't afford to lose 3 months on my original plan, but if I continue as if we don't have children, and then poof here's a baby- well, I need to be prepared for that too. God help me, please.
Please pray for me. I need it.
God Bless,
Lynette